Category Archives: the brain

Intimacy in Relationships

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“The key to intimacy is expressing vulnerability and curiosity”.

The dictionary explains intimacy between partners as that of closeness, a togetherness, a comfortable and confident familiarity with each other. It includes affection and warmth towards each other and friendship.

A few questions partners should take turns in asking each other are:
• What strengths do I bring to this relationship?
• What is something we used to do that you miss now?
• Describe the first moment you knew I was “it” for you
• When was the time in our lives you thought our relationship needed more attention?
• How satisfied are you with the amount of time we spend together?
• What’s one way we could be a better couple?
• What are you most scared of about our future?

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The secret to intimacy:
What is love? Love can be broken down into three components:

• Passion
• Intimacy
• Commitment

Together, these three components make up the triangular theory of love.

Relationships have a better shot if it possesses at least two of these components at any one time.

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You can choose to commit to someone but you can’t just choose to be intimate with someone so where does intimacy come from?

How do two people grow to the point where they can just tell each other anything?

The key to intimacy is expressing vulnerability and curiosity.

It’s very important to remember that love never stays in the same place. Intimacy and passion rise and fall with the stresses of life, so if you feel a drop now and then, don’t freak out. It doesn’t mean the relationship is broken, it’s just the nature of how love works.

Conclusion:
• Put more energy into getting to know the person you love (even if you think you know it all)
• Have the guts to be vulnerable – allow the person you love to see that you’re not super perfect all the time. You can’t get anywhere if you don’t take risks, so risk showing your partner that you can also be vulnerable sometimes. Nobody is perfect and in control all the time.
Source: https://youtu.be/Q2Niq_v34EI

How to make a relationship more powerful

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1. Maintain your relationship with yourself

2. Have a conversation with your partner to co-create the relationship together

3. Learn how your partner receives love

4. Create a conversational context (Empower your communication inside your relationship)

Get him to chase you – Get the Guy!

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For many years I’ve talked about women “making the first move”.

However, until now, there’s something I’ve failed to clarify…

It’s a key piece that will allow you to avoid the #1 biggest mistake women make when talking to guys, it’ll show you how to get him doing the chasing, as well as create a “push-pull” effect to skyrocket his attraction.

You’ll have fun with this one!

Attraction Triggers & Turn-Offs

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What causes attraction and what turns off attraction in both men and women and how they differ in their approaches to dating and relationships.

How to use an understanding of masculine and feminine energy to understand your partner and maintain attraction and sexual intimacy.

Becoming An Awesome Catch

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How focusing on becoming an awesome catch and the best version of yourself can dramatically change your personal and professional life for the better so you can experience the life and lifestyle the average person can only dream about.

“In order to reach your full potential, you must first be willing to let go of all of your preconceived notions of who you and what your limitations are. The beliefs that we hold of ourselves, determines the type of walls and barriers we will consciously and unconsciously erect in between what we are right now, and what we are capable of becoming in the future. If you see yourself as an unlimited being capable of learning, practicing, refining and perfecting anything you have a compelling enough vision to become, you will give yourself reasons to take action and find the time to make it a reality. If you choose to see yourself as a limited being, your capabilities and comfort zone will contract to the point that it saps your happiness and will to live. Your focus, attitude and actions determine your destiny.”
~ Coach Corey Wayne

Why you attract all the wrong men

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Do you feel like you’re attracting all the wrong men into your life?

If so, you’re not alone.

This is a super common complaint among women today.

If you want to know what you can do about it so you can start attracting the RIGHT men, check out the video below:

Why You Attract All the WRONG Men

This video explains exactly why this has been happening to you and why you actually have more choice in the matter than you think you do.

Do you attract the wrong men or do you choose the wrong men?

Let me know your answer in the comments section below.

Quality Questions & Good Communication

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Why asking quality questions, being a good communicator and being focused on mutually meeting each others needs, is essential to maintaining any healthy friendship or relationship long term.

Why holding back or seeking to punish those who you feel wronged by, is not loving or helpful to the long term success of your relationships.