Category Archives: human behaviour

Intimacy in Relationships

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“The key to intimacy is expressing vulnerability and curiosity”.

The dictionary explains intimacy between partners as that of closeness, a togetherness, a comfortable and confident familiarity with each other. It includes affection and warmth towards each other and friendship.

A few questions partners should take turns in asking each other are:
• What strengths do I bring to this relationship?
• What is something we used to do that you miss now?
• Describe the first moment you knew I was “it” for you
• When was the time in our lives you thought our relationship needed more attention?
• How satisfied are you with the amount of time we spend together?
• What’s one way we could be a better couple?
• What are you most scared of about our future?

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The secret to intimacy:
What is love? Love can be broken down into three components:

• Passion
• Intimacy
• Commitment

Together, these three components make up the triangular theory of love.

Relationships have a better shot if it possesses at least two of these components at any one time.

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You can choose to commit to someone but you can’t just choose to be intimate with someone so where does intimacy come from?

How do two people grow to the point where they can just tell each other anything?

The key to intimacy is expressing vulnerability and curiosity.

It’s very important to remember that love never stays in the same place. Intimacy and passion rise and fall with the stresses of life, so if you feel a drop now and then, don’t freak out. It doesn’t mean the relationship is broken, it’s just the nature of how love works.

Conclusion:
• Put more energy into getting to know the person you love (even if you think you know it all)
• Have the guts to be vulnerable – allow the person you love to see that you’re not super perfect all the time. You can’t get anywhere if you don’t take risks, so risk showing your partner that you can also be vulnerable sometimes. Nobody is perfect and in control all the time.
Source: https://youtu.be/Q2Niq_v34EI

How to make a relationship more powerful

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1. Maintain your relationship with yourself

2. Have a conversation with your partner to co-create the relationship together

3. Learn how your partner receives love

4. Create a conversational context (Empower your communication inside your relationship)

The 3 Compliments Guys Never Get Tired Of Hearing

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Today I’m going to give you a little something to GLOW with any guy you’re around.

It’s a simple tip to get on his mind, and create a lasting memory he’ll never forget . . .

Get him to chase you – Get the Guy!

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For many years I’ve talked about women “making the first move”.

However, until now, there’s something I’ve failed to clarify…

It’s a key piece that will allow you to avoid the #1 biggest mistake women make when talking to guys, it’ll show you how to get him doing the chasing, as well as create a “push-pull” effect to skyrocket his attraction.

You’ll have fun with this one!

3 Flirty Ways to Text a Guy You Like

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Don’t know what to text him? Send him these 3 messages.

Download the entire book here:

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Have you ever wanted to a text a guy but had absolutely no clue what to say?

If so, watch this video about texting him.

In it, I show you some super flirtatious and engaging ways to text with your guy. It doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship, these texts will be a huge help with your love life.

The Secret to Keeping a Man Interested in You

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If you never stop being interesting, he won’t lose interest.

Have you ever met a guy and it seems to be going REALLY well, but then suddenly he loses interest?

Or maybe you’ve made it passed the honeymoon phase, and suddenly you feel him slipping away…

If you’ve ever struggled with keeping a man interested, then this week’s video is perfect for you. In it, I describe the secret to holding a man’s attention forever.

Have you ever struggled keeping a man’s interest?

Have you found any simple ways to re-engage him and re-spark the flame in the relationship?

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Leave a comment below and tell us how you have re-engaged your man and put a spark back into your relationship.

Attraction Triggers & Turn-Offs

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What causes attraction and what turns off attraction in both men and women and how they differ in their approaches to dating and relationships.

How to use an understanding of masculine and feminine energy to understand your partner and maintain attraction and sexual intimacy.